Todd,
Thankyou so much for posting the Martha Carter thread!
WOW-what a fabulouse lady.
She is still a teacher in the afterlife because Im sure everyone reading her story will learn alot about making the most of life.
Also to show the ultimate love for her friends and family by truly caring about how they healed in thier grief over losing her.
I would be cremated,and I would like to be planted into soil of a brand new tree so my children could go there to sit under,and know it was left just for them.
I would like my children to be allowed at my funeral only if they want to be there as it is usually expected and maybe their are other ways to say good bye.
I just hope they remember me as happy and loving not my grumpy days.
Maybe one day i will write a letter to tell them how much i love them as sometime kids hear the scolding more than the praise and idd hate for them to question my love.
Also another wish is that my man find someone that will trully love my kids and him as much as i do.
good thread got me thinking!
jez